Derniere Marshall
Mindset Coaching, LLC
 

Since I began Belief Coding® in April of 2022, the anxiety I’ve had all my life, including its physical manifestations of hives, allergies, psoriasis & profuse sweating, all vanished within weeks and never returned. I began to research the neuroscience behind trauma and how it gets lodged and remains in the body. It makes sense because it is an emotion and the longer it remains locked inside, the stagnant energy builds up until it finds a release. 

Many physicians such as Gabor Mate and metaphysical teachers like Louise Hay have found a connection between stored toxic emotions and chronic disease. Some can be reversed if these emotions are identified and caught early on. 

 

How have I changed?

I have traveled abroad alone twice, the first time to Windsor, UK for two weeks with only a carry-on bag and months later, I even stayed with a woman from the BC community I had only met online. I was out of my comfort zone and never felt anxious. My fear of people and what they think of me is gone. I even asked a stranger in Heathrow airport if I could use her phone when my driver did not arrive and my cell didn't work. She said "Of course. Would you like me to dial?"

My relationship are so much better. I used to blame my Mom for everything. Today I love her because I understand her more than I ever did before. That happens when you understand yourself and realize everyone has a story as to who they are because of how their life unfolded. My mother had six children by the age of 26 and a hysterectomy a year later with no hormonal repacement. I can't even imagine what her life felt like every day. Today she is a hero in my book. 

In my early days of Belief Coding® I had many facilitations around the courage to leave my husband. We had been together on and off since graduating from high school. We became increasingly unhappy even as we both worked to provide a good home for our family. I began to find fault in everything he said, or did. I blamed him for all of my disappointments.

 

Last September I spoke to a divorce lawyer, something I never had the courage to do. Friends encouraged me to leave because they only saw my side of the story. Within a year of working on myself, I decided to stay put and face my fears and everything gradually improved because I did! 

Today I have a softer, calmer side. We talk more openly and can disagree without rancor. I respect him for who he is and for loving me when anyone else would have left. He has found a new respect for me because he sees my confidence and is amazed that I have challenged myself to look at my life with willingness to set things right while learning new skills and building my own, thriving business. Early on I made the mistake of thinking I was taking over where his mother left off. That's how it was in the 1970's. I know today I am a partner, not his mother and it's not our job wo make each other happy. I got so much wrong. Those were unquestioned beliefs.  I am free to travel and visit friends without guilt and when I return we're happy to see each other. If we have a disagreement, depending on the severity, I either use EFT or Belief Coding® and I feel better and can listen to understand his perspective. Years of talk-therapy never gave me the type of toolkit I have with Belief Coding®.

I am open to exploring new things. Recently, I began playing the Ukulele and found I love it! 

The money blocks I’ve had all my life are gone.  I've nearly doubled my income & no longer live on a fixed income. Many of my clients are repeat clients and the main source of referrals.

Life is hard. I want to help lessen the pain and lend hope so I offer free Mindset Coaching sessions to struggling high school and local college students.

 

In addition I offer free EFT classes for children and teens. Many clients during a session often revisit a childhood incident  that formed their early negative beliefs. Children need to know they are loved just as they are and when love is not received, they are deeply wounded and act out, often hurting the very ones who can show them kindness and offer friendship. Tapping helps them self regulate and reminds them they are good kids and they belong in this world and it will get better.