...even my husband's breathing annoyed me. I felt crazy, misunderstood, impatient and often sat alone and cried in my car. My emotions ranged from being positive and upbeat to negative and harsh, lashing out at loved ones and innocent bystanders and never knew why.

Most days I silently struggled and only wanted to be left alone to try to figure out how to be normal. But I kept going, working and doing my best to care for my child and family. 

 

If I kept busy with volunteer work with Girl Scouts, Church and community activities, I didn't have time to worry but at the end of the day I had restless or little sleep, and found it hard to concentrate and some days it was hard to stay awake. Yet, to the outside world, if you didn't get too close, I appeared well dressed and normal. 

 

To make matters worse, I thought I was doing all the right things to get help, attending weekly therapy sessions for 15 years, and twice weekly self-help groups. I started hormonal replacement pills and later, HRT patches which left red circles on my abdomen due to my skin sensitivity. Eventually HRT was linked to breast cancer and I stopped all together, since the night sweats had stopped, I  erroneously thought I was okay. I was not. I believe today, had I known as much then, most of my emotional suffering and the harm I caused  could have been greatly  managed and reduced.

 

What I know now about Menopause is women become depleted of Progesterone, Estrogen and Testosterone over their life span. With over 30 symptoms, it's more than depression, night sweats and hot flashes. Anti-depressants only mask the symptoms and delay us from getting help. 

 

I remember years ago, maybe in the 1960's, my grandmother's best friend, Clarissa was placed in the Mattapan State Hospital by her husband because of her 'bad days' and her inability to be a wife. She was given electric shock treatments which only reduced her to an incoherent shell of the talented, smart and funny woman she once was. It still happens today.

 

Women need to recognize the profound  effect it has on our lives. Undiagnosed and untreated Menopausal symptoms may be the number one contributing factor women fail to succeed in their careers or marriages but it’s seldom acknowledged. There is more to the increase of grey divorce than the reasons we are given. This is 2023 and the topic is still widely misunderstood. Please see my resource page for more information.

 

Belief Coding™ saved my life. I always believed that the solution would come one day and I had the resilience and faith, strong traits passed down by my grandmother, to keep going for years until April 2022, in the middle of the night this beautiful, young woman and mother of 5 children, Jessica Cunningham appeared on my Facebook page. What amazed me was her honesty and her utter belief in the transformative effects of Belief Coding™ that she spent money to promote it freely! She wanted to share it with people like me, sitting alone, late at night waiting for an answered prayer. I have told her countless times that she single-handedly saved my life and my sanity. I was so close to giving up.

 

She asked, "If you had a magic wand and could use it to improve your life, what area of your life, right now would you wish to improve? What would your wish be?" I wanted to be free of my inner demons, waking with regret, to believe in myself and I wanted to learn to overcome my fear of deep water and learn to enjoy swimming. Weeks after the first free workshop, I tested this new belief by taking swim lessons for the umpteenth time and this time, the fear was gone! I didn't panic when I couldn't touch the bottom. I enjoyed the water and the lightness of my body. Another thing I noticed as I walked from the dressing room to the pool, I didn't think of how I looked in my swimsuit. For the first time in my life I felt comfortable in my own skin. If that wasn't proof enough, the anxiety I had lived with all my life gradually disappeared within weeks along with its physical manifestations of heavy sweating, hives and psoriasis. It's been 18 months now and they haven't returned. If it works for me at 77 years old, imagine what it can do for you! It is backed by science and works like magic, but like any exercise, for lasting results, consistency yields the best results.

 

Belief Coding™ works for nearly everything, including physical pain, psychosomatic illnesses, low self-esteem, money blocks, addictions, anxiety, phobias, relationships with yourself and others, people pleasing, study habits, grief, remorse, fear of judgement and lack of self love. 10% of our facilitators are medical providers and therapists. We have a 98% success rate.

 

My story and overcoming against all odds is my motivation for working with women in midlife. There are so many of us who could benefit from this amazing process. You don't have to suffer or question your sanity. You aren't broken. If you have read this far, you still have hope. I am so glad you are here. You're not alone!

 

The best part is I've done the research and waited until Belief Coding™ showed up. It's only been available for 2.5 years. Unlike me, you don't have to wait most of your life to find it. 

If I can make life better for one person, one woman, one child, one family; my worse days were almost worth it. Ready to see if Mindset Coaching with Belief Coding™ can work as well for you?

 

Book a free discovery chat and let's see what it can do for you!